Confessions

The Broken Christmas

This happened some 4/5 years back in the month of December.

My parents decided to go and spend the Christmas in village. I decided to stay at home. I was in my teenage back then so obviously they were reluctant and didn't want to leave me all by myself but with my sugar coated words I managed to persuade them. After my parents left it was party, party and party... alcohol, girls, music. We didn't bother to think about our neighbours, we were in our own world and so darn high. Sometimes I would do the expenses and sometimes my friends and so like that the party went on. I was so having the time of my life.

And so after some hard partying Christmas came and went. My parents were returning home and I was kind of worried what if my neighbours tell my parents about what crazy nights I spent in their absence. But guess what, the worst was yet to come.. I was cleaning up the mess and the surroundings hoping to create an impression when my parents comes home.. then came this phone call from my mom saying ‘‘your father and i just met with an accident, we are being taken to dimapur, don't worry it's not that serious. Will call you when we reach there” with an almost breaking voice.. I am sure she was crying.

My uncle and we went down to dimapur and there I saw my dad lying on a bed with some broken ribs and a fractured arm. Then i started to think what if God was punishing me.. was my dad hurt because of my deeds?

Silently i started to pray and asked for forgiveness.. Never again am i going against my parent's wishes and i decided if i can't make my parents happy at least i won't be the reason for their sadness.

5 Things Customers Should Know About Your Dealers

"Hi NCZ, don’t you guys feel irritated when shopkeeper says ,""rs.5 change nai chewing gum lobi de"" or sometimes when you buy a vegetables in market they gives you extra vegetables saying that they don’t have change..Don’t you feel angry when shopkeeper knowingly gives you chewing gum as if they don’t have rs.5 in their drawer..Take a look at kohima popular bakery sometimes they gives whole ten rupees chewing gum saying, ""change nai dae chewing gum lobi"". we Nagas are a bit show type so we dont argue especially youngsters they don’t want to ask for change because its hi fi shop its popular bakery and i just some attitude of sales man of popular bakery they are so proud especially plain wallas.so they will happily accept it. Next time Iam planning to buy one packet of chewing gum in exchange of rs.5 to all shopkeepers who doesnt gives me change.We need to stop this kind of practices.

Hope everyone is familiar with the attitude of our Naga Entrepreneurs. Bargaining with them its impossible. I just hate some of their attitude some of them proudly says ,""if you want to take it then take it or else don’t take it""..That’s why they never succeeds in their business hardly they manages to run their shops for few months. And moreover we locals don’t want buy from our own people shops. I think it will be better why not local bodies organize a seminar and teach our local Entrepreneurs and give importance and awareness of customer care or how to handle customers in a better ways and means. We know that all our money is being circulated by those meyas and marwaris those money are not being circulated in our state that’s why our economy is ruining. Day by day these plain wallas are getting richer and richer .But our Naga business man or not getting why do they let this happen ,it lies in their own fault they dont use their brains..they are lacking behind good customer service.

Illegal migrants Bangladeshis are flowing in our state like sands. Our own economy is ruining knowingly we are letting them to do our works this practices should be stopped or else one day we will be in their hands...

Here are some tips to stop illegal migrants to stop flowing in our own land..

1. dont let them to make your business partners.

2. dont let them to do our own works.

3. dont let them to rent in our own houses.

3. dont let them to work in our construction side.

4. dont let them to work in our cultivation fields.

5. dont let them to make close relations with us.

Automatically they will be fed up of us and they will leave.


"GIRLS AND THEIR DRESS CODE"

Girls, 
Eat to please yourself but dress to please others ,
Eat as much as you want but dress to please others, please .
If you are fat than eat lots,eat as much as you want
Dont let peer pressure make you think that you must go starve. 
But dont wear clothes that are not meant for you.
Dress well and decent , everyone would love and appreciate .

Girls,
"Some talks about looking sexy and hot in seductive clothes"
Yes we boys love your sexy curved body and you wearing seductive clothes
Remember we love them but just for a pleasure .
It please us but in a wrong notion , please someone with your decent clothing,please .
"Emotional intimacy for physical intimacy is lust"

Girls ,
"Dont tell us how to dress but tell your sons not to rape "
"Dont judge our (boys) action but tell your daughters to stop seducing with their dressing"
You should know that men are sensitive by nature .
When your clothes keep dropping thats more like seduction.
Your dressing comes first than rape.

Girls,
"Real man dont rape and real woman dont wear seductive clothes"
But when real woman starts wearing seductive clothes
Real man vein starts function even in the boneless parts .
Testosterone hormones is beyond man's control but
Way of dressing is depends (under the control) on the person who is wearing.

Girls ,
"Boys can show 90% and girls can't even show 50% of their body- always unfair"
Girls will you dress like a boy showing 90% of your body (i.e with only boxer)
The answer is NO (some girls feeling disgusting about me )
Girls its disgusting to see you wearing seductive clothes though it arose us.
" Can't control veins functioning in boneless parts but you can control your dressing,please".

Girls ,
"Boys we wear skirts not to show our leg and look sexy but we love / comfortable wearing it "
Girls its your life do whatever you want but when you are going out wear decent clothes,please .
Stay with only innerwear at home if you want but Wear decent clothes when you are out, please.

Girls,
"What about those old ladies and a 5 years old girl got rape that has nothing to do with short/seductive clothing".
We should say those are unlucky girl/woman who met a hungry dog 
The culprit must have got arose and therefore he committed a crime ,
Somewhere someone a seductive girls must have seduce that hungry dog
Dont you see most rape are committed wearing shorts and seductive clothes?? .

Girls ,
"Boys sleeping with dozens of girls and flirting around , lets not talks about morality when there is morality shortage"
Ok girls when you come up with your seductive dress ,how do you expect us to respect you. Ofcourse if
you are trying to seduce us though not intentionally ,we would like to have physical intact.How can we let a beautiful
peahan pass away while we are not with guns and catapults, we will surely hunt them down with even stones or whatever way
we can. "Where the desire you let it grow ,boys will find a way to fulfill them"
'Hormones functionality are beyond our control'.When a girl get horny they are much hornier than boys .Girls are also human
and all human feels the need of physical desire.When women have their cycle which messes with their hormones
for instances some women get extremely horny because its their body last chances to get pregnant before ovulation.
[sorry for this ugly part but though ugly its truth].Wearing bra all the time cause breast cancer.You may wear only
vest at home but please dress decent when you are going out .

Girls,
You talks about boys wearing boxers and roaming in the town but remember that your what so call "mini-skirt" or "halfpant"
or whatsoever is shorter than boxers . We boys wear halfpant/boxers almost reaching our knee and you wear your bla bla shorts almost
reaching your what so call bla bla bla [better not mention]

Dear girls,
We would like to see you dressing decent when you are go out ,May God be with you wherever you go.

Let us dont take this post as from another anonymous writer but from your own beloved brother , dear girls.
(SWEET MOUTH WITH STING AT THEIR END STOP STING WITH YOUR STINGER WORDS )



RAPES AND THEIR REASONS

My thoughts on Different kinds of
rapes and their reasons-
1.Child rapist- i think this is the worst
of its kinds , this same rapist can rape
an adult ,but he chooses a child
because its helpless , powerless and
much easier. There is totally no fault
in the child .
2. Raping an old women-what comes
to your head when you think about
the rapist in these cases ? "A horny
psycho?" i think you have the answer.
2. Rape occurance because of a sexy
outfit
- i think dressing matters whatever
research tells us its just the mindset
of the person that commits it. Ok
imagine , a guy whose sexual life isn't
great obviously is already horny as
hell for his own different reasons. .
Picture this- he sees a girl wearing
mini skirt walking alone in some
isolated place or any place thats rape-
capable . . I am sure it will turn up
his hormones like a fire and
encourage him to commit the crime.
So what i wanna ask you guys is
"would it encourage him the same if
the girl was wearing decent clothes?" i
am sure half of his hormones wont
wake up,and thus he'll still be human
at the time, Dressing matters in these
cases. Its a sad fact which people
ignore . I always appreciate whatever
women wear but for the idea to get
across in their minds to realise how
rotten our society has become and to
know when and where to wear sexy
clothes and to adapt , makes them
feels insulted and un-
independent .Oh Yes even me How i
wish i live in a place where women
would wear bikinis and roam the
town and all men think in their mind
is "nice body" with their hormones
completly balanced. But sadly thats
not our world.
3. Rape occuring without a sexy dress
-
Here is the thing, once people find
out a rapist had raped a girl who
wasn't wearing seducing clothes
makes them to conclude that dressing
doesnt play any role in rape. But who
knows what sexy outfit he must have
seen hours back that made him an
animal at present? But I would say
this rape victim is the most
unfortunate because there is nothing
she did which drove the rapist to her.
There are two different kinds of
victims.
A victim who unknowingly contributed
to let the rape occur and a victim who
was totally unfortunate.
* This rape topic is almost endless
and God! How i wish i had the perfect
answer to the consequences which
leads to rape which everyone would
agree . But i am afraid these rape
cases are never gonna stop unless
there comes a technology which
detects every men who has an
intention to rape , thats the only way
really. Girls Just be extra careful and
use your 6th sense to know if you are
in a place or situation where its not
safe. That way i think you girls can
atleast be safer.i am so sorry men
have turned into animals but know at
the same time there are many men
like me who appreciate everything
about females, i know its not fair and
i have no rights but forgive me for
giving you precautions to live in this
world. Be safe~

God has another plan for you

"This is a real confession!!!
I am a Naga. I completed my graduation in 2007 under Nagaland University. It was the time where we have to give all those Papers of 1st year along with the 2nd year papers in the second year. Thus I had to give some 12/13 papers in Part I exam (Hons). Just imagine how will one fare well in this exam like me who did overnight study. I was just wondering how do they expect us to recollect 1st year papers after leaving entirely for one year!! Moreover the stinginess of giving marks compounded to my misery. I was not that brilliant but was an average student. Even if I gave my best, the most mark I got was some 45/50. I was just wondering if there were no students eligible enough to pass in 1st class because that no students in my department (Plo.Sc.) pass in 1st class. I could just manage 45%. I went to Delhi but could not get into any University. Thus I completed my PG in IGNOU. I applied for lecturer post in some private colleges in Nagaland but none of them were willing to induct me because my degree was from IGNOU. If colleges cannot accept IGNOU degree, why did they establish this Open University at all. I tried my luck in NPSC exam for 2 times but could never make it. I applied for Govt.teacher but was never selected (I don't know why).I heard that corruption in Nagaland is thing of the past but I think it is because of this that I am never selected. At last I ended up taking this beautiful occupation i.e driving autorickshaw!!! Because of my occupation, I couldn't approach any beautiful girls and thus ended up marrying an ugly girl but I love her. Now we've got 2 kids in 2 years and I am supporting them by driving autorickshaw... This is life and I am just thinking at what stage my life has turned this way.But God has his own plan for me and that's why I am what i am now. I am happy!!!

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